Comments on: How Do I Reject My Colleagues on Facebook?

By: David Banner

David Banner — Fri, 01 May 2009 15:10:28 +0000

People ignore me all the time. No biggie!
Actually, it makes me angry and you know, you wouldn’t like me when I’m angry…

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 10:53:39 +0000

Go lite on Eileen, she must have had issues with men in her past, and/or she comes to write here at a time of the month when her stench trench is giving her fits.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 04:14:54 +0000

This post has NOTHING to do with sex — why are you people making it about that? “Eileen” being the biggerst offender, as usual. Boo.

By: Eileen DeBonis

Eileen DeBonis — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 11:36:22 +0000

Don’t worry, Hump, I will not be offering up my cooter to you, now or ever. There are plenty of worthier men already in line who I can’t ever get to, so rest assured, I will not go wanting for male attention, thank you very much! YOU are the one that needs a place to park your weenie, but it is not going to be anywhere near me.

By: Alex Hump

Alex Hump — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 03:54:19 +0000

Gosh, Eileen, again you bring everything back to sex, and how all the boys are after your crotch. Give me a break. No one is going to impregnate you, unless, of course, you believe in immaculate conception. We aren’t that interested in you or the many men who have lusted after you. You are in need of a good HUMP, but not from me, mind you, not me.

By: Eileen DeBonis

Eileen DeBonis — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 14:10:37 +0000

I would get all the friends I could, for now. Who knows with the economy and all, you may need a friend down the road. But make sure that if you agree to be friends, that it’s just friends. There should be NO expectation of any kind of sex. You control your body, and make sure that you do not create the implication of a sexual relationship by being listed.

I know that there are plenty of times a guy, when asked about his relationship with a woman, will slyly laugh or gesture, intimating that he has been sexual with a woman, when in fact the woman has not even touched him (or been touched by him). It’s difficult to undo people’s perceptions. I’ve even been looked at with a leering eye by men who think I have F***ed their friends, when I have not even known them.

We must be careful to preserve our reputations, and that starts with being agreeable to be a facebook friend. You don’t want to give your picture over, particularly if you appear to be happy, as that too connotes some kind of sexual connection, or will be built into it by the guy with his sleazebag friends.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 03:24:37 +0000

Um, just ignore them…?

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 17 Jan 2009 21:11:52 +0000

I find it very interesting that in this legal world where people are getting laid off every week, that people are still concerned with trivial questions like this. I can’t tell if its escapism, and therefore healthy, or just a result of being an idiot. Either way, the question-er should be grateful he/she has coworkers in the first place. Many others aren’t so lucky right now.

By: Damn

Damn — Sat, 17 Jan 2009 20:49:31 +0000

Dude, if you’re really worried about co-workers friending you on a social networking site, you need all the friends you can get. Suck it up.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 18:18:59 +0000

Yes, and make sure also you don’t list your firm name in your profile – guaranteed to get requests from every staff and junior associate if you do.