Comments on: How Do I Handle a Bad Law-School Hook-Up?

By: payday loans

payday loans — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:51:41 +0000

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By: Bill Dugan

Bill Dugan — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 23:21:28 +0000

Xuan Lin, if you know any good looking college aged girls in need of a sexual release, I live in Western Pennsylvania, not far from Pittsburgh.

By: Xuan Lin

Xuan Lin — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 17:26:18 +0000

I know. You are an OK poster. You seem to have your head in the right place most of the time. I cannot properly psychoanalyse any of you based solely on your webposts; hence I limit my comments to generalisations applicable in nearly all instances to the posts I see. I remain concerned about Eileen and her need to effect the equivalent of mental castration on any men that cross her semblance of moral behavior. It is easy enough to ignore bad posts, Eileen; these are not men you would spend your life with, let alone your love life. I think it best for you to take things lighter.

By: Alex Hump

Alex Hump — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 23:17:26 +0000

Xuan Lin is pretty cool, Bill. If she weren’t married, I’d make a play for her myself.

By: Anon

Anon — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 17:52:10 +0000

fraud.

By: Eileen DeBonis

Eileen DeBonis — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:14:27 +0000

Hump, you are at least right about ONE thing. I never had any regrets about whether I should/should not have done something with some snivvelly male law student whose only goal was to “tag” me. By refusing any of these advances, I retained my purity for someone who would not just chalk me up as another one on his list.

I recommend the woman here forget the big mistake she made; after all, she cannot undo the sex she had with this jerk. What she must remember, is NOT to do it again. Wait for the right guy, who you can trust. Trust is built up over time. Find a guy who is interested in doing things for you that do NOT involve sexual things. If the guy is willing to stick with you through tough times (usually over a year), you can then count on him over time.

Once you find such a guy (there are a few that are out there), hold on for dear life. Once you know he treats you right, make sure to reat him right, and you will both be very happy.

By: Bill Dugan

Bill Dugan — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 18:09:12 +0000

Xuan, you are pretty cool Thanks for the vote of confidence.

By: Xuan Lin

Xuan Lin — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 15:43:41 +0000

I agree to a limited extent, with the male posts in that they do correctly point out the regret this woman feels for compromising her morals with an ungrateful fellow law student.

In any school / academic environment, we are expected to learn, and in learning, we all make mistakes. Perhaps this woman is concerned about her public perception–will she be viewed negatively by the peers of the man who is now spuring her? Will she be able to survive in the work environment where a mistake like this could label her for her career in a legal firm environment; how will she be able to address other workaday situations where moral fortitude is required?

If a law firm partner asked her to create a document that was not 100% above board, could she do it or would she have the ability to stand up for what is right? These are all issues we must face in life.

This issue, about whether she should have slept with the man and what she should do now, in the big scheme of things, is very small — possibly smaller than the man’s penis. The fact that this woman hooked up with the man should not be reason for hand-wringing. No terrible consequences ensued. Presumably , she still has her health, she is not pregnant, and she is not being taunted by her classmates for hooking up with the man.

I would tell her to move on with her life, as the Legal Tease does. There will be plenty of reasons in her life going forward for consternation, but this is not one of them.

By: Alex Hump

Alex Hump — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 11:21:58 +0000

It’s nice to have some support from my buddies. It’s not often that the HUMPster can count on help when getting gangtackled by a bunch of outraged Amazons who are sorely in need of a crate of Massingills to hose out the fish farm. I stand by what I said. The woman should not have “hooked” up if she was going to be “second guessing” her actions now. I’ll bet Eileen never had this kind of problem. If this woman followed her lead, she would not be whining now, and these other cows wouldn’t be springing to her defence.

By: Bill Dugan

Bill Dugan — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 22:45:06 +0000

If a woman “hooks up” with a man, 99.5% of the world knows she has had some kind of sex with him. Don’t get technical, like Bill Clinton, about whether a BJ is not sex. It is sex. You DONT have to penetrate the honey hole for there to be sex. No one is saying women have to have sex with a man every time they touch him, but if his dick is in her mouth, that, my friend is sex. So that is why the woman is remorseful. Whether she gave him a BJ took it up the cooter or the rear end, she is sad because he is not now interested in her. He’s moved on to happier hunting grounds for a myriad of reasons. Stop defending her. She’s just sad for giving it up so soon that the man does not respect her (other than maybe to come back when he’s super horney for a quickie). Beeotch.